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How to Use Failure to Strengthen Belief in Yourself
Support Groups: Can They Make a Difference?
Support Groups: Can They Make a Difference?
Appreciate the Small Things And Find Contentment
Appreciate the Small Things And Find Contentment
Let Your Daily Routine Move You Toward Success
Setting Your Daily Routine
Stop Relying Too Much on Others
If you have difficulty trusting yourself, you may be too dependent on others. The situation can grow and you become dependent on more and more people.
GenuLines knows that can present problems when called upon to handle situations on your own, so read for some helpful ideas.
Stop Relying Too Much on Others
Have you ever let someone else take over a part of your job? You may feel relief when this happens.
But you could be setting yourself up for future failure. The reason this happens is that you didn’t trust that you could do the job yourself.
In the above scenario, you’re taking on something outside of your comfort zone. It may be that your boss wants to test how you will handle a new situation.
He or she gives you an assignment knowing that you have never dealt with it before.
It’s natural to ask others for help when you find yourself in unfamiliar territory. There’s nothing wrong with doing this.
But there’s little growth in letting others solve problems for you. You won’t develop the self-trust for handling new situations.
And your manager will see that you, for the most part, passed the assignment to someone else.
Positivity helps
Face your new challenges with positivity. Be willing to make an attempt even if you make mistakes.
The mistakes are the tools for you to learn. When you do make those mistakes, ask what you did wrong.
Over time, those mistakes will get less and less, and you’ll begin to trust that you can handle the situations.
There’s a subtle result of trying something new. You’ll prove that you can handle new tasks and develop new skills.
That’s enlightening and it’s a big factor in developing trust in yourself.
Every skill you are now good at and find easy you probably struggled with at the start. If you keep this in mind, you will give yourself over to trusting that you can handle anything that comes your way.
You’ll need less reliance on others. But you still should ask questions when you are unsure about something.
That’s another part of learning.
Some people may give you a hard time because it’s inconvenient. But, you’ll find most people want to help you succeed.
It helps them when you get up to speed with new skills.
JohnK 5-21-2019
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~Ronald Reagan
Do You Know Your Optimal Routine Zone?
Do You Know Your Optimal Routine Zone?
Complainers Can Learn to Appreciate Small Things
Complainers Can Learn to Appreciate Small Things
Help the complainer
Action Steps For When You Don’t Trust Yourself
Action Steps For When You Don’t Trust Yourself
When trust doesn’t work
Appreciate The Small Things and Find Contentment
Appreciate the small stuff and you’ll be happy. You hear it enough.
But what is happiness anyway?
Today GenuLines looks at appreciation and its “kissin’ cousin”, contentment.
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Appreciate The Small Things and Find Contentment
Most emotions are transitional, meaning you’re never in one state for long periods. People who are considered upbeat will have moments of sadness or depression.
Even depressed people aren’t depressed all the time. They have moments of happiness, too.
Think about a major event such as a war. When two countries are fighting, both sides lose lives.
It’s bloody, and it can last for years. But, when the war is over, the countries are euphoric.
There will be no more bloodshed because of the war, and people can return to their homes. But, nothing that has changed in the world except that the war has ended.
In other words, the sun still sets each day. People still have to manage their lives.
The euphoria from the war ending doesn’t last long. Months later, the war is still over, but the euphoria has died down.
Same goes for sickness
The same is true in a smaller way when you have a bad sickness. For instance, suppose you have a stomach bug that leaves you uncomfortable and in pain.
When the bug passes you feel fine. But you don’t feel any better than you did when you weren’t experiencing the bug.
It’s relative to the bad feelings. That’s how emotional states work.
They go from one to the other on a constant basis.
Appreciating the small things in life may lead to happiness. But, it’s likely you’re content more than you are happy.
Contentment can almost be thought of as a neutral state, leaning toward the happy side. There’s nothing wrong when you’re content.
But, there also isn’t anything that is making you overly happy.
Striving for happiness can be stressful. You might want to shoot for contentment instead.
Contentment is likely to find you when you appreciate small aspects of your life.
And it comes without the hassle of working hard toward happiness.
If you spend most of your life being content you’re doing something right. Think about all the people you love and what you have, such as your health and a good job, etc.
If you try to imagine life without them, you will truly appreciate your contentment. That thought may even make you happy for a short period.
JohnK 2-26-2019
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Overheard: “My crown is called content, a crown that seldom kings enjoy”
~William Shakespeare
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Ira Israel on CHI FOR YOURSELF And A New “Freebie”
Last week’s CHI FOR YOURSELF interview with Ira Israel ran into some “technical difficulty” as they say. So it was not available to you live. But my conversation with Ira was recorded.
Ira Israel is the author of How to Survive Your Childhood Now That You’re an Adult: A Path to Authenticity and Awakening.
First, a look at some of the show’s talking points:
- The central theme of the book
- The meaning of “negativity bias”
- A definition of authenticity
- The part resentment plays in our lives
- Is there such a thing as the “mid-life crisis?”
- The myth of romance
- Beginning the process of forgiveness
…and, the show itself. Listen by clicking on below–
A new CHI FOR YOURSELF “freebie” is up and available. Get this free report on dealing with stress when you click here–
JohnK 2-13-2018