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Know Your Normal vs. Abnormal Memory Changes

Your memory can fade as the years pass. And it’s important to know when that loss becomes something serious. 

It’s an important subject and today GenuLines is showing you when there’s cause for concern.  

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Know Your Normal vs. Abnormal Memory Changes 

Memory stickAs you age you may notice some memory loss. Your kids remember things while you struggle at times.
 
These changes can occur as your focus bends in so many different directions. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
For example, working parents get overwhelmed remembering all the appointments for the family. A calendar works well here.
 
This is an example of a normal memory problem.  
 
There are also biological reasons for forgetfulness. Changes in the brain can bring mild memory impairments. 
 
The ability to process information and to react to it slows, as does the ability to multi-task.  But a little more effort to learn and remember new things as you age is still possible.  
 
But not all cognitive and biological changes are the same. For example, abnormal cognitive changes can occur due to conditions such as Alzheimer’s.
 
Here are seven ways to identify normal forgetfulness from abnormal forgetfulness:
 
1. The passage of time  
The passing of time is often to blame for decreased memory in normal aging.  If you don’t think about particular memories often you may forget them. 
 
It’s the same with details surrounding the event.  This is normal. 
 
The more you recall the easier you’ll retain them. So if you don’t use those memories, you lose them.  
 
But abnormal forgetfulness is when you cannot recall recent events. Things like what you ate for breakfast or who visited you that day.   
 
2. Stressful events
If you try to recall events from a stressful time in your life it’s likely due to normal memory lapses.  During times of stress, your brain has a harder time storing information.  
 
3. Repetition  
Telling your daughter the same story in two weeks is more likely due to normal forgetfulness. But telling her the same story during a visit lasting thirty minutes is not normal.  
 
4. Date
Normal forgetfulness includes not remembering the exact date. Someone with abnormal memory will not even know what year it is.
 
5. Self-care abilities  
A good range of memory for your age range can include remembering to wash and dress yourself. To eat. To go to the grocery store.
 
And to take your medications, though you may need to use a pillbox as a reminder.
 
Not remembering how to do these tasks or even that they need done is abnormal.
 
6. Familiarity
You can get lost in unfamiliar locations, such as when you’re visiting a new area of your city.  What’s not normal is to get lost and not remember familiar things.
 
These include your own neighborhood or your family members.
 
7. Frustration levels
Normal forgetfulness isn’t likely to make you angry when reminded about something. Abnormal reactions to this include denial, anger, and defensiveness.
 
Other bad reactions can come when you test someone’s memory for dates, places, and more.  They may even accuse you of stealing something that they lost and cannot locate.  
 
JohnK 3-1-2021
 
Stick figure hears about memoryOverheard: “Memory is the treasury and guardian of all things”
                              ~Cicero
 
 
 
 
 
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Is Age Really All In Your Mind?

 
You grow older and you die. That’s a common timeline for many of us.
 
But how you deal with aging is another story, and GenuLines says that’s up to you.
 
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Is Age Really All In Your Mind?

Now we don’t mean that your mind can keep you from aging. But it can make you feel that way!
 
old person with caneYou often hear people over the age of 50 talk about aging. They talk about deterioration, decline, and feeling unwanted and not useful.
 
One way to deal with this is to focus on the positive things age brings. Things like wisdom, understanding, and the ability to help others.
 
 
Doing your best to be healthy is another way to keep the bad thoughts at a distance.
Your outlook and quality of life are likely to increase, too.

Ignore the Culture Surrounding You

We live in a world obsessed with youth. Every day, older people get pushed to the side in favor of the young.
 
The late teens and early twenties are the years called prime.
 
To get past this and actually start living with an ageless mindset, you have to do your best to tune it out. You’ve aged to the best you’ve ever been.
 
You’re wizened and seasoned. Stop denying your aging and own it; that’s what will truly make you ageless.

Love Your Body and Own Your Age

The only way to ensure you keep having the ageless mindset is to continue to love your body. Remind yourself that you’re getting better with age.
 
Appreciate your body for what it does for you and how far it’s taken you. Every day that you’re alive, you can learn something new and adapt to changes around you.

Never Say ‘Never’

One thing that will knock you off your path towards an ageless mindset is negativity. We psych ourselves with an attitude that we’re too old to do certain things.
 
You feel too set in your ways to learn. That can lead to feeling too old to be of value.
 
These thoughts are toxic and they threaten the positivity you’re working to maintain. Block negative mind chatter about your abilities, your worth, or your age.
 
It may take you a little extra effort to get where you want to go, but if you make the effort, you can.
 
How you deal with aging is up to you. You can dye you hair and lie about your age.
 
Or you can move forward with a new positive mindset that will have you feeling ageless.
 
JohnK 9-21-2020
 
Stick figure hears about ageOverheard: “Age is not important unless you’re a cheese”                                                                  
                                       ~Helen Hayes
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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