Life gives us lots to appreciate. People who forget that can become bitter over time.
But you can set an example for them. Today GenuLines looks at some ways to do it.
Show Others How to Appreciate the Small Things
Your gratitude for life’s gifts can help you show others how to do the same. You don’t have to go overboard.
You can make occasional references to how you enjoy your life and give reasons why. Relate experiences about your weekend to your colleagues. Then tell why you appreciate them.
Stay as positive as you can, even if the bitter people are negative. That’s not easy since negative people can sour the moods of the people around them.
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But, your positive outlook can cancel out that negative behavior.
People appreciate listeners
They haven’t been able to get their problems off their chest. These problems often build, which stokes their bitterness.
They feel as though no one is listening and no one cares about them. But playing the role of advisor can be the wrong tactic to use.
Be a listener. It’ll make a world of difference.
Invite them to events after work. Understand that it may take some time before they say yes to your invitations.
Bitter people often become reclusive. Keep inviting them, and over time you may break down their barriers.
Don’t pressure them. That will make them more reclusive.
Talk activities
Get them talking about their hobbies or their favorite sports. Even if they aren’t active in these events, ask about past experiences.
When they start talking it may re-ignite a spark. That can be a great starting point in helping them get through their issues.
Some people will never let down their guard, and that’s unfortunate. They’ve stopped living life, and they don’t appreciate any aspect of it.
But there’s hope for some. Even changing one life is a force for good.
They’ll become more pleasant to be around. And they may get to the point where they’ll help others who’ve lost their way.
JohnK 5-7-2019
Overheard: When the crowd appreciates you, it encourages you to be a little more daring, I think.~ Julius Erving
***Photo by MARK ADRIANE on Unsplash
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