5 Essential Tips for Managing Frustration
Let’s be real: frustration is a part of life. But managing it?
That’s a whole other ballgame. It’s not a subject they cover in the classroom.
And our parents? Well, let’s just say they weren’t always the best teachers on the subject.
If you’re struggling to deal with your own frustration, that’s understandable. But managing frustration is possible.
And these five essential tips from GenuLines can help to help you keep your cool.
Even in the most frustrating of circumstances.
Take a Step Back
A smart thing to do when feeling frustrated is to take a step back. Breathe.
Don’t react.
Take a minute to distance yourself from the situation. This way you can ask what happened and try to figure out an answer.
By stepping outside of the situation, you can see it with less judgement.
Ask if there are pros or cons to this situation. Remind yourself if you’ve been here before, and you’ve gotten out of it unscathed.
Even if this is new territory for you, chances are it wasn’t for someone else. Just know that you will survive this. .
Embrace the Emotion – Then Let Go
When you’re frustrated, you put a lot of emotion into a situation. Your first reaction might be to suppress these feelings. Instead of pushing down and trying to ignore them, identify what you’re feeling.
Then allow yourself to feel it before letting it go. That keeps emotions from controlling the situation.
Act When Calm
When you think you’re outside your emotions act in a rational way. You should make all decisions from your logical self, not the emotional one.
The goal is to respond to a frustrating situation, not react.
Identify What You Wanted in the First Place
Frustration tends to happen when you’re not getting something you want. What triggered this frustration?
Was this a want or a need? If it’s a want, is it practical or reasonable?
Or is this something you need to let go?
Make a Choice
In the end, frustration only leaves you with two choices. Accept the status quo, even If it’s painful, or change the situation to ease the frustration.
Decide which it’s going to be.
If you’re going with the status quo, you have to accept the frustration as being part of this decision. and learn to live with it or let it go.
Managing frustration isn’t hard so long as you can stay out of the emotions of the moment. Keep a handle on yourself and take the time to think things through.
Then act as needed.
JohnK 2-24-2025
chiforyourself.com
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